Shy Girls Flirting

Shy girl flirting- what comes to your mind when you hear these words? Or, can you really imagine how a typical timid female acts when she is attracted to a guy?
Shy girls do flirt. Picturing a shy girl flirting may be subtle to conceive of but yes, they absolutely do. Remember, flirting is just but a basic means of expressing one’s attraction towards the opposite sex . Girls, no matter how shy they are, if they are attracted which normally happens to all normal species, are not an exemption. The thing is, how would you know that the girl is flirting, and I am not saying common girls? I am referring to quiet, more reserved girls flirting.
First of all, it must be emphasized that shy girls don’t do the first move. They are very indirect with their flirtatious actions and that as a guy, you must not expect that she will just come out from her shell and talk to you or flirt with you just because she likes you. It takes a careful observation to distinguish a shy girl flirting. Below are some signs of shy girl flirting.
Texting/Chatting. Since shy girls can’t speak out with people around, they are more expressive in text or chat. Give your number to her, ask her email and do the first move. Notice how she flirts back. Observe how interrogative she is in text. Because the best time to see a shy girl flirting, is when you are not visibly facing each other.
Glance and smile. A shy girl basically doesn’t want attention from the crowd. But definitely, when she wants your attention, she would always glance at your side. Catch the glance and when you see that reluctant but sweet smile from her and then she quickly looks to other side then you are seeing a shy girl flirting.
Communication. A quite girl is always quite but if she likes you, even if it is hard in her part, she will find ways just to have a word with you. Even if it would mean her stammering while talking to you. The poor girl flirting with you is making an effort anyway.
Physical. Girls who are moderate or silent are tend to be more possessive and jealous. So, if this shy girl likes you a lot, she would start to feel insecure physically. What a shy girl flirting will do then is to change her physical self, be more attractive to your eyes, which, though, sometimes leads to a worst case scenario.
Contradict to common people’s thinking, a shy girl flirting is not that hard to identify. Since they do same things each day- read books, sit in the corner, eat alone- you could then easily tell that a shy girl flirting does unusual things even in the slightest way.

First Day Super High

Summer seemed so long but yet too swift to remember. I finished my on the job training in Cagayan de Oro and now here I am busying myself with school stuffs again. Well, perhaps I am already late with writing my experience in my first day or should I say first days in school.

The class started on June 6 and I together with my teammates(Xang and Arizza) in CDO was absent from the first day of class, that was Monday, up to Thursday. So we attended the class on Friday.

Hmmm, so my first day wasn't special at all. I only had 2 classes. The first was Logic where people were so unfamiliar. My first impression....booooring :|. The next was Relational Database System Management (RDBMS) which is a major one. I met my long lost friends Ada and Princess who came from big Manila for OJT. Wew!

I really hate database but I have to deal with it. I don't say I am worst at it but I don't like this thing. It is keeping me thinking. Hope I will survive this subject without complaining. I think that is impossible. :p hahaha

My boyfriend...he's there too. He was late! When he entered in the lab room, everyone was shouting and teasing us. That was really awkward. I felt so shy especially that he was sitting in front of me and I could not look straight to his eyes. The truth is, we were not in good terms that time. The reason, only me knows.

So, we'll go for the second week. Hmmm, what did we do? The week was busy. The most interesting is, I finally got my PE 4 subject. It's all about volleyball. I take it as a challenge. Never played volley in my life. I am not a chick, nor an athlete. :'(. In fact, I only learned Badminton during my PE 3. Waaah. So, we were assigned to have a goal(for physical improvement) to be achieved at the end of the semester. Mine is to have a firmer arms..and this uhm..to have abs? hehe. It's Arizza's suggestion. Might as well try. We'll see. ^_^

Wednesday night, I slept at Princess house, had dinner with dear bf and had a Marian Walk early morning the next day. The school celebrated its 100 years of existence here in the Philippines- you know La Salle University or De La Salle Schools? We attended the school mass. Sorry but I really fell asleep since it was so hot inside the arts center. Most people were wearing black university t-shirt adding the temperature of the place. The gym was filled with students from elementary to college students, we're like sardines in a big container.

And Friday, we just had a meeting..all of us IT fourth year students. Our department adviser announced the schedule of the activities for the whole semester. Next week we'll have General Assembly. So far, the week was good. Not so busy and not so relaxed. For sure there will be a lot more pressures for the coming days especially in Software Engineering and Capstone Projects.

So goodluck to me and to everyone in the world! ;)

It's not Goodbye, It's See You Later

So, this will be the second to the last day of our training. I am bit excited because at last I could go back home. I could go back to school again, which by the way has started already last June 6. Yes, I will be absent for 4 days from the class. It's okay since I have the valid reason-OJT, of course.

Thinking that I will eventually leave this city which I have lived in for 2 months make me feel sad. I think, I have learned to love Cagayan de Oro. All my life, I have been living in a rural, far away place. This is my first time to live in a "real" city where hotels and restaurants are everywhere, where you have to race to pass across the street to avoid being hit by the vehicles, where shopping malls are big and have a lot of option, where foods are "mahal", where night life is alive and most of all where b****es are scattering around the city every night. Hehe.

I am fascinated with the atmosphere of the city (call me taga bukid) and I won't deny that I am a "probinsyana" in nature. The buildings, the night lights, the billboards, the people, everything in the place seems exciting though you know there's always a danger in the city. There was even a night where we heard someone was murdered just a block away from where we were.(Well,we did not follow our curiosity to see the crime scene. Leaving that aside, I should say I really had a good time in Cagayan de Oro. Perhaps it's because I was living in my own, just with friends, and free from the observant eyes of my mother or family adds the peculiar feelings that I feel.

Though there were times also that I was in despair, missing all my loved ones from my hometown or running out of budget and had no idea how to earn money, I just realized this has added colors to my life here in Cagayan. Now that I will be going home, hmm, I am now reminiscing the memories I have in tnis place.

There are a lot of and I even forgot some of the good things that happened to me here. Anyway, to name a few are the following below;

I really enjoyed the night cafe every Fridays and Saturdays here. With Arizza, we had a great time trying to fit in all the shoes we like in the ukay2x stalls. The vendors always shout "oh pili, pili diri..libre SUKOD(2X)", so that's it. It's freee anyway!

I love the Proven. I crave for it everyday. I am always mentioning it to my classmates because I am really in love with this street delicacy of Cagayan de Oro. This is for sure the first thing that I would miss in this city. Because there is no proven in Ozamiz, cross my finger.

I would surely miss the malls. Of course there are malls in Ozamiz but not as big and as vivid as in CDO's. Would surely miss the "fun time" stuffs and gimmicks. Never do it during school days.

I guess I would also miss the staffs in Sticky Media Solutions, Inc. We had no opportunity to be that close to them but atleast we have befriended some of them. The work? Well, I have learned a lot. =) What it is, I am in no position to share. :p

Memories. Well, there are a lot of memories I had here. Arizza, my roommate, for sure discovered some qualities that could turn off every man in town about me. I sang terribly. Not because I have a horrible voice but I admit, I do make ridiculous lyrics especially the songs that I only know the tone but definitely not the lyrics. haha.

I am very noisy when I cross the streets especially when I see a vehicle running towards me...Waaah. Kriza and Arizza would then laugh at me. Poshhh! There was one time when I already came at the center of the road and a taxi was heading on the other side, I went back to the side where I came from with the two girls instead of just staying there and wait for the taxi to pass. Stupid me. Haha! Of course, my stop sign is a bit funny too. I can't help it. Better to be looking like a dancing traffic enforcer than to be hit by a car! Oh by the way, what I hate in CDO is the jeep and vehicles that run recklessly in the streets. They had a terrible traffic habit here. One must be careful then, like me. Bleeh!

One of the funniest experience I had here in CDO was when I had a stiff neck and back. I couldn't look upward, sideward and downward. Well, it's not funny..it's painful! But the laughing thing was when I need to drink water (bottled water) and I have to sit in the stairs and stand against the wall in sloping manner. Could you imagine how funny my position was? For sure you can't, Kriza stole a picture of me in that position and I swear, it's ridiculous. But I deleted it, so no evidence. Knowing Kriza...haha

Well, there's still a lot of things that I want to share and I still have to correct the grammars above. But I am running out time. I will continue this later.
Adieu for now! =)



......to be continued

Cagayan de Oro.

I've never been in Cagayan de Oro, not until April 26, 2011-the first time I stepped into the portal of the city known to be the City of the Golden Friendship. Now, in my 2 months of living in this place, I learn to love it here. The place where I came from was not as merry and vivid as Cagayan de Oro.

I learned that the city has what they called "Nigh Cafe" every Friday and Saturday nights. If you are fun of collecting ukay-ukay and bargaining stuffs then you will love it here. There are bunch of ukay-ukay stalls in the streets. Your budget will really be budgeted.

Every night, street vendors are every where selling streets foods such as siomai, proven, tempura and kwek kwek. The "proven", I do not really have the idea where they get the name, is the one that caught my taste buds. I became addicted to it! It's somewhat an internal organ of the chicken coated with flour. For those who are not so fan in eating street foods then try in Magic Kainan. There is no much sharing of sauce there because it's a small karenderia. The proven they sell are really delicious. I tell you, I become an addict of the food especially theirs. As in super addict that I could eat proven every night if only I could.

Night life is everywhere. We had strolled around the city and I could observed different KTV bars and disco bars at the left and right of the roads. Restos and hotels are also very visible. You won't surely find it hard to look for a place to eat or to stay. It's everywhere.( By the way, most of the kainan here offer chicken servings-fried chicken, lechon manok, etc. That's the first thing we observe here. Maybe CDO has a lot of chickens. Hehe.)

Of course, the malls! When we first arrive here (with Kriza, Arizza and Yue), we went straight to Gaisano Mall. We ate in their food court and left our luggage in their baggage area. So nice because they didn't ask for additional fees which some of the malls in our city do. We really have big bags, what would you expect for a 2 months stay?

The next mall we went to was the SM Megamall. I call it "malayo sa kabihasnan". It's not really near from the heart of the city and the location is in the upper area. You have to ride a jeep to go up there. If you have good budget, then you can go for taxi. There are a lot in the city, just prepare hundreds of pesos. While you can pay 10 pesos if you ride in a jeep.

Then the Limketkai. Surprisingly, half of the mall is the Robinson. When, we went there the mall's aircondition was down. So we did not really stayed long there.

The funny thing is, when we went to these malls, it's not for shopping. We directly head to the fun time area, kids area or something just to have some fun. We spent money just to play some games there and we sang in their KTV stalls. We usually go there on Sundays because this is our day off from our on-the-job training. We need fun, fun, fun!

The last but not the list, I mean least, that really captivate our interest is the white water rafting in CDO. WEW! It's the most highlight tourist attraction in the place. However, since we are penniless then-we have no salary from our training, only spend, spend and spend- I am afraid we could not try this most exhilarating adventure in Cagayan. Huhuhu. But the days are not ending yet. I am still praying that someday, and I mean while I am still here, I would have money so that we could go and try it. I swear, it's a lovely adventure so if you have the budget and if you are looking for adventure, COME HERE IN CAGAYAN, SHOP AND RAFT, okay? So that's all for now. I still have 12 days in approximate to live here in Cagayan de Oro. While after that, I am going back to Ozamiz and start my senior year as an IT student in La Salle University.

By the way, I am here in Cagayan de Oro for OJT. Did I mention that? Oh well, ciao for now.

-JOY

FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT http://www.cdokay.com


Thanks to my bestfriend Mariel for letting me write in here blogging site. She's my bestfriend here in Cagayan de Oro.

God Vs. Science

I just read this story from a certain blog somewhere and have taught me a lesson. Read this down to the end and see what conclusion can you draw to yourself.

A science professor begins his school year with a lecture to the students, “Let me explain the problem science has with religion.” The atheist professor of philosophy pauses before his class and then asks one of his new students to stand.
“You’re a Christian, aren’t you, son?”
“Yes sir,” the student says.
“So you believe in God?”
“Absolutely.”
“Is God good?”
“Sure! God’s good.”
“Is God all-powerful? Can God do anything?”
“Yes.”
“Are you good or evil?”
“The Bible says I’m evil.”
The professor grins knowingly. “Aha! The Bible!” He considers for a moment. “Here’s one for you. Let’s say there’s a sick person over here and you can cure him. You can do it. Would you help him? Would you try?”
“Yes sir, I would.”
“So you’re good…!”
“I wouldn’t say that.”
“But why not say that? You’d help a sick and maimed person if you could. Most of us would if we could. But God doesn’t.”
The student does not answer, so the professor continues. “He doesn’t, does he? My brother was a Christian who died of cancer, even though he prayed to Jesus to heal him. How is this Jesus good? Hmmm? Can you answer that one?”
The student remains silent.
“No, you can’t, can you?” the professor says. He takes a sip of water from a glass on his desk to give the student time to relax.
“Let’s start again, young fella. Is God good?”
“Er…yes,” the student says.
“Is Satan good?”
The student doesn’t hesitate on this one. “No.”
“Then where does Satan come from?”
The student falters. “From God”
“That’s right. God made Satan, didn’t he? Tell me, son. Is there evil in this world?”
“Yes, sir.”
“Evil’s everywhere, isn’t it? And God did make everything, correct?”
“Yes.”
“So who created evil?” The professor continued, “If God created everything, then God created evil, since evil exists, and according to the principle that our works define who we are, then God is evil.”
Again, the student has no answer. “Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things, do they exist in this world?”
The student squirms on his feet. “Yes.”
“So who created them?”
The student does not answer again, so the professor repeats his question. “Who created them?” There is still no answer. Suddenly the lecturer breaks away to pace in front of the classroom. The class is mesmerized. “Tell me,” he continues onto another student. “Do you believe in Jesus Christ, son?”
The student’s voice betrays him and cracks. “Yes, professor, I do.”
The old man stops pacing. “Science says you have five senses you use to identify and observe the world around you. Have you ever seen Jesus?”
“No sir. I’ve never seen Him.”
“Then tell us if you’ve ever heard your Jesus?”
“No, sir, I have not.”
“Have you ever felt your Jesus, tasted your Jesus or smelt your Jesus? Have you ever had any sensory perception of Jesus Christ, or God for that matter?”
“No, sir, I’m afraid I haven’t.”
“Yet you still believe in him?”
“Yes.”
“According to the rules of empirical, testable, demonstrable protocol, science says your God doesn’t exist. What do you say to that, son?”
“Nothing,” the student replies. “I only have my faith.”
“Yes, faith,” the professor repeats. “And that is the problem science has with God. There is no evidence, only faith.”
The student stands quietly for a moment, before asking a question of His own. “Professor, is there such thing as heat?”
“Yes,” the professor replies. “There’s heat.”
“And is there such a thing as cold?”
“Yes, son, there’s cold too.”
“No sir, there isn’t.”

The professor turns to face the student, obviously interested. The room suddenly becomes very quiet. The student begins to explain. “You can have lots of heat, even more heat, super-heat, mega-heat, unlimited heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat, but we don’t have anything called ‘cold’. We can hit up to 458 degrees below zero, which is no heat, but we can’t go any further after that. There is no such thing as cold; otherwise we would be able to go colder than the lowest -458 degrees.”
“Every body or object is susceptible to study when it has or transmits energy, and heat is what makes a body or matter have or transmit energy. Absolute zero (-458 F) is the total absence of heat. You see, sir, cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat we can measure in thermal units because heat is energy. Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it.”
Silence across the room. A pen drops somewhere in the classroom, sounding like a hammer.
“What about darkness, professor. Is there such a thing as darkness?”
“Yes,” the professor replies without hesitation. “What is night if it isn’t darkness?”
“You’re wrong again, sir. Darkness is not something; it is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright light, flashing light, but if you have no light constantly you have nothing and it’s called darkness, isn’t it? That’s the meaning we use to define the word.”
“In reality, darkness isn’t. If it were, you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn’t you?”
The professor begins to smile at the student in front of him. This will be a good semester. “So what point are you making, young man?”
“Yes, professor. My point is, your philosophical premise is flawed to start with, and so your conclusion must also be flawed.”
The professor’s face cannot hide his surprise this time. “Flawed? Can you explain how?”
“You are working on the premise of duality,” the student explains. “You argue that there is life and then there’s death; a good God and a bad God. You are viewing the concept of God as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, science can’t even explain a thought.”
“It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one. To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing. Death is not the opposite of life, just the absence of it.”
“Now tell me, professor. Do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey?”
“If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, young man, yes, of course I do.”
“Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir?”
The professor begins to shake his head, still smiling, as he realizes where the argument is going. A very good semester, indeed.
“Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavor, are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you now not a scientist, but a preacher?”
The class is in uproar. The student remains silent until the commotion has subsided.
“To continue the point you were making earlier to the other student, let me give you an example of what I mean.”
The student looks around the room. “Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the professor’s brain?” The class breaks out into laughter.
“Is there anyone here who has ever heard the professor’s brain, felt the professor’s brain, touched or smelt the professor’s brain? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established rules of empirical, stable, demonstrable protocol, science says that you have no brain, with all due respect, sir.”
“So if science says you have no brain, how can we trust your lectures, sir?”
Now the room is silent. The professor just stares at the student, his face unreadable.
Finally, after what seems an eternity, the old man answers. “I guess you’ll have to take them on faith.”
“Now, you accept that there is faith, and, in fact, faith exists with life,” the student continues. “Now, sir, is there such a thing as evil?”
Now uncertain, the professor responds, “Of course, there is. We see it everyday. It is in the daily example of man’s inhumanity to man. It is in the multitude of crime and violence everywhere in the world. These manifestations are nothing else but evil.”
To this the student replied, “Evil does not exist sir, or at least it does not exist unto itself. Evil is simply the absence of God. It is just like darkness and cold, a word that man has created to describe the absence of God. God did not create evil. Evil is the result of what happens when man does not have God’s love present in his heart. It’s like the cold that comes when there is no heat or the darkness that comes when there is no light.”
The professor sat down.
This students statements are true, can you or can you not make night darker?
Is it possible for it to get colder after absolute zero -458 degree’s F.
Can you feel,taste,see,hear,or smell your brain,
If anyone can contest this please do.

Favorite Love Quotes

For someone secretly falls for her/his friend

A Friend is all I see in you
A Friend is all I can feel from You
A Friend is what I'm trying to be!
When in my heart I Know you're
more than just a Friend to Me


For someone who is confused

If you love me, let me know. If not, please gently let me go.

Unconditional Love

“Love is when you shed a tear and still want him, it's when he ignores you and you still love him, it's when he loves another girl but you still smile and say I'm happy for you, when all you really do is cry.”

Broken Hearted

“Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.”

“A sad thing in life is that sometimes you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go.”


Etceterea, etcetera...etc

Love, like a river, will cut a new path whenever it meets an obstacle.
Crystal Middlemas

Love is not finding someone to live with; It’s finding someone you can’t live without
Rafael Ortiz

Don’t try to reach God with your understanding; that is impossible. Reach him in love; that is possible.
Carlo Carretto


...to be continued